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	<title>Comments on: Why do Asian women prefer white men? Seriously&#8230; why?</title>
	<link>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/</link>
	<description>My name is Chris Yeh. I'm a Harvard MBA, and you can ask me anything!</description>
	<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 22:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Victoria</title>
		<link>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1894</link>
		<dc:creator>Victoria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 05:40:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don't know what guys are saying Asian girls have no curve, ass or boobs, excuse me. I think there is no need to generalize all Asian girls in that category. I'm Chinese and Filipino, and blessed with some of the curves in the Filipino side of mine thanks to my mom. I guess my boobs aren't too big, but not to small either with a butt at least you can see that I have one and it's not incredibly large. I have sun every now and then but I'm naturally light-skinned, and just become a little golden but not tan. My eyes are fairly large, and I don't have the typical Asian girl stereotype behavior. I think they're stupid an pointless, as for Asian women mooching off money? Hello, not only them but other races do that shit. And I honestly want to smack you retards who think they are the only one who does that. I work for my money as an honest citizen in America. I don't need a man to get money.

As for the topic, I honestly like white men because most I've been with are so sweet and kind. Where I live there isn't much Asians and when I do meet one, unfortunately they're assholes and flirts like crazy with other girls. So it was out of the list and I find white men great in and out, preferably. I'm with a Serbian and Norwegian fiancé, he's those guys who I'd meet once in a lifetime in my life. I genuinely love him, and he is the same with me. I won't change him for the world and I'm excited to have a future with him. As for those insults I've read: no respect and it's fucking rude, you can say it online but not in ones face. Coward much? And no need with stereotypes, just preferably go with experiences. But note not all are the same.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know what guys are saying Asian girls have no curve, ass or boobs, excuse me. I think there is no need to generalize all Asian girls in that category. I&#8217;m Chinese and Filipino, and blessed with some of the curves in the Filipino side of mine thanks to my mom. I guess my boobs aren&#8217;t too big, but not to small either with a butt at least you can see that I have one and it&#8217;s not incredibly large. I have sun every now and then but I&#8217;m naturally light-skinned, and just become a little golden but not tan. My eyes are fairly large, and I don&#8217;t have the typical Asian girl stereotype behavior. I think they&#8217;re stupid an pointless, as for Asian women mooching off money? Hello, not only them but other races do that shit. And I honestly want to smack you retards who think they are the only one who does that. I work for my money as an honest citizen in America. I don&#8217;t need a man to get money.</p>
<p>As for the topic, I honestly like white men because most I&#8217;ve been with are so sweet and kind. Where I live there isn&#8217;t much Asians and when I do meet one, unfortunately they&#8217;re assholes and flirts like crazy with other girls. So it was out of the list and I find white men great in and out, preferably. I&#8217;m with a Serbian and Norwegian fiancé, he&#8217;s those guys who I&#8217;d meet once in a lifetime in my life. I genuinely love him, and he is the same with me. I won&#8217;t change him for the world and I&#8217;m excited to have a future with him. As for those insults I&#8217;ve read: no respect and it&#8217;s fucking rude, you can say it online but not in ones face. Coward much? And no need with stereotypes, just preferably go with experiences. But note not all are the same.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeff</title>
		<link>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1893</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 17:13:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not that I don't find Asian women attractive, I just stick to my own. I consider a White woman beautiful regardless of her physical appearance. I also consider most White women physically beautiful. Looks aren't the only good quality of a White woman.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not that I don&#8217;t find Asian women attractive, I just stick to my own. I consider a White woman beautiful regardless of her physical appearance. I also consider most White women physically beautiful. Looks aren&#8217;t the only good quality of a White woman.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeff</title>
		<link>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1892</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 17:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with most of the White women commenting here, especially "Proud White Woman." Racially aware White women are a major turn on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with most of the White women commenting here, especially &#8220;Proud White Woman.&#8221; Racially aware White women are a major turn on.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
		<link>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1891</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 09:19:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Asian men have smaller penises but make more money than white men so white women who are gold diggers should seek asian men since penis is less important than money for those who only care about the money.  This means that Asian men can get Jewish girls!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Asian men have smaller penises but make more money than white men so white women who are gold diggers should seek asian men since penis is less important than money for those who only care about the money.  This means that Asian men can get Jewish girls!</p>
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		<title>By: C</title>
		<link>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1889</link>
		<dc:creator>C</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 15:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm mixed, mexican and white. I got more of my looks from my fathers side(french-canadian). So I look more white. I prefer latino and italian men. Many italian men are more cultured and romantic than American men. Many latino men are just hotter, period. Dark hair, skin, and killer eyes. Latino men also tend to have a way with the ladies. All that being said, I have dated many white men. I have found though that in reality it really all depends on the individuals personality when it comes right down to it. You will find losers in all races, and gems in all of them. There are a few cultured American men out there. Not many, but they exist.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m mixed, mexican and white. I got more of my looks from my fathers side(french-canadian). So I look more white. I prefer latino and italian men. Many italian men are more cultured and romantic than American men. Many latino men are just hotter, period. Dark hair, skin, and killer eyes. Latino men also tend to have a way with the ladies. All that being said, I have dated many white men. I have found though that in reality it really all depends on the individuals personality when it comes right down to it. You will find losers in all races, and gems in all of them. There are a few cultured American men out there. Not many, but they exist.</p>
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		<title>By: Billyap</title>
		<link>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1887</link>
		<dc:creator>Billyap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 06:27:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1887</guid>
		<description>There's still one big ? on my face. Why haven't any of these Asian-American civil rights groups addressed this problem of self-hating AF. They are always ready to criticize Hollywood for movies like The Last Samurai and Memoirs of a Geishor for not getting it right -which is the right thing to do. But they simply ignore these self-hating AF, which is becoming a trend. Is it because some of these women running these civil rights organizations are themselves self-hating AF. These ugly and sick self-hating AF just make the KKK so lame.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s still one big ? on my face. Why haven&#8217;t any of these Asian-American civil rights groups addressed this problem of self-hating AF. They are always ready to criticize Hollywood for movies like The Last Samurai and Memoirs of a Geishor for not getting it right -which is the right thing to do. But they simply ignore these self-hating AF, which is becoming a trend. Is it because some of these women running these civil rights organizations are themselves self-hating AF. These ugly and sick self-hating AF just make the KKK so lame.</p>
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		<title>By: Billyap</title>
		<link>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1886</link>
		<dc:creator>Billyap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 14:57:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1886</guid>
		<description>We have to face facts. There are many Asian-American women who are self-loathing, who would restrict themselves to dating white guys only. They consider Asian men together with Black and Latino men as inferior or not good enough for them.
There was a survey taken some time back in the early 2000s (the website has already been removed) on women of various races and their dating preferences. Most women surveyed expressed their preference in dating men of their own race with the exception of Asian women. When asked why, they would give all kinds of stories about the ugly physical attributes of Asian men. But when they were asked whether they would date an Asian man if he had physical attributes as good or better than the white man, the Asian women still gave a negative answer.  
The worst part is that these women would usually wind up dating some white trash male because all they're obsessed with is just getting a white guy - any white guy. 
Statistics have shown that amongst the races, Asian women have the highest rate of intermarrying outside their race and to WM. It was around 10 percent vs under 2 percent for the other races. When they broke the Asian women down to their ethnic origins, it was the Chinese, Japanese, Koreans and Vietnamese who made up this 10%. Apparently, the East Indian women who married outside their race was under 2%. It's the yellow ones who are really self-hating. It's gotten to the point where some of them have stooped so low as to appear on youtube or some other video making derogatory remarks at the physical attributes of Asian men compared to white men. That's how really ugly they are on the inside. It seems that it's the white women, as well as the Latin and Black women despite their economic woes, who remain loyal to their own men and race. That's how sick our Asian "sisters" have become.
There are some in the Asian community that blame the white man for suffering from YELLOW FEVER for all this WM/AF dating. But in most cases it is the AF pursuing the white guy. The real fault is that our Asian women are suffering from WHITE FEVER. 
You may also notice that those cool, successful white men do not settle for Asian women or women of any other race. They usually wind up with some striking blonde haired, blue eyed woman. I guess this tells you the type of WM our AF settle for. 
As for the Asian men who are upset with the WM/AF dating scene don't be. You should just feel sorry for these self-hating Asian women who have gotten so sick and ugly on the inside. 
By the way, has anybody come across a merried WM/AF couple where the AF has to work 9/5 while the WM is unemployed. I have come across 3 cases just like that. 
For your consolation, just check out www.geisham.blogspot.com.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have to face facts. There are many Asian-American women who are self-loathing, who would restrict themselves to dating white guys only. They consider Asian men together with Black and Latino men as inferior or not good enough for them.<br />
There was a survey taken some time back in the early 2000s (the website has already been removed) on women of various races and their dating preferences. Most women surveyed expressed their preference in dating men of their own race with the exception of Asian women. When asked why, they would give all kinds of stories about the ugly physical attributes of Asian men. But when they were asked whether they would date an Asian man if he had physical attributes as good or better than the white man, the Asian women still gave a negative answer.<br />
The worst part is that these women would usually wind up dating some white trash male because all they&#8217;re obsessed with is just getting a white guy - any white guy.<br />
Statistics have shown that amongst the races, Asian women have the highest rate of intermarrying outside their race and to WM. It was around 10 percent vs under 2 percent for the other races. When they broke the Asian women down to their ethnic origins, it was the Chinese, Japanese, Koreans and Vietnamese who made up this 10%. Apparently, the East Indian women who married outside their race was under 2%. It&#8217;s the yellow ones who are really self-hating. It&#8217;s gotten to the point where some of them have stooped so low as to appear on youtube or some other video making derogatory remarks at the physical attributes of Asian men compared to white men. That&#8217;s how really ugly they are on the inside. It seems that it&#8217;s the white women, as well as the Latin and Black women despite their economic woes, who remain loyal to their own men and race. That&#8217;s how sick our Asian &#8220;sisters&#8221; have become.<br />
There are some in the Asian community that blame the white man for suffering from YELLOW FEVER for all this WM/AF dating. But in most cases it is the AF pursuing the white guy. The real fault is that our Asian women are suffering from WHITE FEVER.<br />
You may also notice that those cool, successful white men do not settle for Asian women or women of any other race. They usually wind up with some striking blonde haired, blue eyed woman. I guess this tells you the type of WM our AF settle for.<br />
As for the Asian men who are upset with the WM/AF dating scene don&#8217;t be. You should just feel sorry for these self-hating Asian women who have gotten so sick and ugly on the inside.<br />
By the way, has anybody come across a merried WM/AF couple where the AF has to work 9/5 while the WM is unemployed. I have come across 3 cases just like that.<br />
For your consolation, just check out <a href="http://www.geisham.blogspot.com." rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/comment/www.geisham.blogspot.com.');">http://www.geisham.blogspot.com.</a></p>
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		<title>By: lisa evers</title>
		<link>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1885</link>
		<dc:creator>lisa evers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 04:05:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What's interesting is you see a number of white american males here who say that asian women are better, and then out of the other side of their mouth say that white american women are dumb, fat, crass, entitled, don't age well etc.

Clearly these men are bitter and full of hate.  They probably got burned by one too many white women.  And so what do these particular little boys do when they've been hurt?  Why they lash out.

And then they are happy to find that there's a group of women (many asian women) who will bend over backward for them, simply because they are white males.  Let's face it, there are a good number of asian women out there who are absolutely fixated on being with a white man.

And do you seriously think these loser white guys are going to admit to anyone "Well I do prefer white women but they were always breaking up with me...I just can't seem to get a date with white women...".  Do you SERIOUSLY think a loser like him is going to admit that?  Noooo...  So instead he will bash the white woman, and profess his 'ahem' preference for asian women.

And over time, sure, he does come to prefer asian women, if only because they cater to his little boy ego and can make him feel desired...something this white female counterparts obviously couldn't or didn't want to do.  ;-)

If a man truly just 'preferred' asian women, there'd be no need for him to bash white women.  But as soon as he does that, it's crystal clear that he's the problem, and not the white women.

Ditto for asian women who bash asian men as this and that, and who will only date white men.  Clearly they are the ones with issues....and not the asian men they love to bash.

It's no different than black men who are serial white woman daters, and say they can't find any decent black women.

In each instance it's the speaker who has the issues....the people who categorically REFUSE to date their own race.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What&#8217;s interesting is you see a number of white american males here who say that asian women are better, and then out of the other side of their mouth say that white american women are dumb, fat, crass, entitled, don&#8217;t age well etc.</p>
<p>Clearly these men are bitter and full of hate.  They probably got burned by one too many white women.  And so what do these particular little boys do when they&#8217;ve been hurt?  Why they lash out.</p>
<p>And then they are happy to find that there&#8217;s a group of women (many asian women) who will bend over backward for them, simply because they are white males.  Let&#8217;s face it, there are a good number of asian women out there who are absolutely fixated on being with a white man.</p>
<p>And do you seriously think these loser white guys are going to admit to anyone &#8220;Well I do prefer white women but they were always breaking up with me&#8230;I just can&#8217;t seem to get a date with white women&#8230;&#8221;.  Do you SERIOUSLY think a loser like him is going to admit that?  Noooo&#8230;  So instead he will bash the white woman, and profess his &#8216;ahem&#8217; preference for asian women.</p>
<p>And over time, sure, he does come to prefer asian women, if only because they cater to his little boy ego and can make him feel desired&#8230;something this white female counterparts obviously couldn&#8217;t or didn&#8217;t want to do.  <img src='http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>If a man truly just &#8216;preferred&#8217; asian women, there&#8217;d be no need for him to bash white women.  But as soon as he does that, it&#8217;s crystal clear that he&#8217;s the problem, and not the white women.</p>
<p>Ditto for asian women who bash asian men as this and that, and who will only date white men.  Clearly they are the ones with issues&#8230;.and not the asian men they love to bash.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s no different than black men who are serial white woman daters, and say they can&#8217;t find any decent black women.</p>
<p>In each instance it&#8217;s the speaker who has the issues&#8230;.the people who categorically REFUSE to date their own race.</p>
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		<title>By: lisa evers</title>
		<link>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1884</link>
		<dc:creator>lisa evers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 03:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So long as we see clear TRENDS in inter-racial dating, there can be no denying that the MAJORITY of these couples got together because of stereotypes/self-hate of their own (non-white) race.

When we start seeing more asian men with non-asian women, and more black women with non-black men, only then can we know that people are seeing beyond race.

But as we all know, black women and asian men are the most stereotyped against.  

Do you seriously think it's pure coincidence that so many asian women are with non-asian men, but not so many asian men with non-asian women...that it has nothing to do with stereotypes?

It's sorta like all those black professional ball players.  How many of these guys (or other 'upwardly-mobile' black men...lawyers, actors, etc) have lighter-skinned wives?  Pure coincidence you say?

Then you my friend have your head in the sand.  ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So long as we see clear TRENDS in inter-racial dating, there can be no denying that the MAJORITY of these couples got together because of stereotypes/self-hate of their own (non-white) race.</p>
<p>When we start seeing more asian men with non-asian women, and more black women with non-black men, only then can we know that people are seeing beyond race.</p>
<p>But as we all know, black women and asian men are the most stereotyped against.  </p>
<p>Do you seriously think it&#8217;s pure coincidence that so many asian women are with non-asian men, but not so many asian men with non-asian women&#8230;that it has nothing to do with stereotypes?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s sorta like all those black professional ball players.  How many of these guys (or other &#8216;upwardly-mobile&#8217; black men&#8230;lawyers, actors, etc) have lighter-skinned wives?  Pure coincidence you say?</p>
<p>Then you my friend have your head in the sand.  <img src='http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: lisa evers</title>
		<link>http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2009/06/27/why-do-asian-women-prefer-white-men-seriously-why/#comment-1883</link>
		<dc:creator>lisa evers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 03:43:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What I also find is that in the US, many of the asian women who have a 'pattern' of dating white men are complete hypocrites.

They usually follow a certain pattern, these women:

valley girl talk
try to come off as 'strong' women
pseudo-intellectual
pseudo-feminists
will explain away their 'preference' for white men as 'oh I grew up in a white nabe...asian men are too shy..' etc

What I also find is that the asian women who are serial white guy daters...they are often the MOST vocal about guys with an asian fetish.  Very clever of them.  You see, by speaking out against guys with an asian fetish, it's like saying 'oh, well MY white boyfriend is not a white fetishist...I made sure of that because I just hate that...if I thought he had a fetish I wouldn't be with him'.

By saying this however, it also cleverly puts all the focus on the white boyfriend (gee, maybe he DOES have a fetish but she's kidding herself)?  And then there's no attention focused on HER, and HER likely WHITE FETISH.  

I mean, isn't it interesting how we hear so much talk all the time about Yellow Fever but not about White Fever?  See the asian women love to perpetuate this notion of yellow fever..that it's supposedly so rampant...because then it plants the idea in everybody's minds that asian women are just SOOOO desirable.  And that if these women end up with non-asian men, it's because all these men were chasing THEM, and not vice versa.

Very clever.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What I also find is that in the US, many of the asian women who have a &#8216;pattern&#8217; of dating white men are complete hypocrites.</p>
<p>They usually follow a certain pattern, these women:</p>
<p>valley girl talk<br />
try to come off as &#8217;strong&#8217; women<br />
pseudo-intellectual<br />
pseudo-feminists<br />
will explain away their &#8216;preference&#8217; for white men as &#8216;oh I grew up in a white nabe&#8230;asian men are too shy..&#8217; etc</p>
<p>What I also find is that the asian women who are serial white guy daters&#8230;they are often the MOST vocal about guys with an asian fetish.  Very clever of them.  You see, by speaking out against guys with an asian fetish, it&#8217;s like saying &#8216;oh, well MY white boyfriend is not a white fetishist&#8230;I made sure of that because I just hate that&#8230;if I thought he had a fetish I wouldn&#8217;t be with him&#8217;.</p>
<p>By saying this however, it also cleverly puts all the focus on the white boyfriend (gee, maybe he DOES have a fetish but she&#8217;s kidding herself)?  And then there&#8217;s no attention focused on HER, and HER likely WHITE FETISH.  </p>
<p>I mean, isn&#8217;t it interesting how we hear so much talk all the time about Yellow Fever but not about White Fever?  See the asian women love to perpetuate this notion of yellow fever..that it&#8217;s supposedly so rampant&#8230;because then it plants the idea in everybody&#8217;s minds that asian women are just SOOOO desirable.  And that if these women end up with non-asian men, it&#8217;s because all these men were chasing THEM, and not vice versa.</p>
<p>Very clever.</p>
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