because asians are sexy without trying. they dont need a shit load of makeup either. smooth skin, very feminine, classy, youthful, pale skinned with dark hair = a touch of danger.

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-5847984513475560733

WHY ARE ALL THE WHITE GUYS TAKING OUR GIRLS???

It’s a funny video. Check it out.

Asian women are, on average, more feminine than white women. On the other hand, white men are, on average, more masculine than Asian men. Moreover, black men are, on average, more masculine than white men, while black women are, on average, less feminine than white women. These facts explain most of the racial discrepancies in sexual preferences. The “Yellow Fever” short film linked to above is a good illustration of these patterns.

I nice article. I agree with some of it. I dont think white guys have asian fetish’s, but there attracted to other aspects like culture and respect.

I was reading this blog and its actually interesting because it comes from someone who has been through it all. The whole Asian fetish thing.

http://wazian.blogspot.com/

I am an Asian woman, and I’ll speak for myself - the reason I have a weakness for blue eyes is because there is something so appealing about possibly having a child who looks like Mark-Paul Gosselaar, Linsay Price, or Kristin Kreuk. All three are bi-racial and happen to be half-Asian.

I have nothing against Asian men, nor any other race, for that matter…but having the love and respect that I feel toward my father who is Filipino, I keep him on a pedestal. I’ve never dated an Asian man, have never been attracted to one.

I have only had Caucasian boyfriends but have dated other races. As far as being cared for goes, I am in the process of honing my skills in choosing men who actually pay. One of my ex’s paid for our last anniversary dinner with gift cards, which he requested from his parents specifically for our occasion…

Im a white male and white women are not the standard for beauty in the universe.It is most certainly asian women with their sexy skin,cute nose and eyes,small cute feet.Pointy nosed,ashy,big footed,old looking white women dont come even close. People say asian men dont date out because blah blah. The real reason is because they have the best already and know it.

The writer’s got no clue what he’s talking about. Apparently Harvard MBAs don’t do SH*T when it comes to analyzing social issues…. how pathetic.

Tired of seeing too often this topic gets obscured…cut all the bullcrap about who’s more beautiful, who’s more loyal, who’s got bigger dicks, who’s more feminine…etc etc
Get this through your head first: PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE. there’re minor physical differences between races on average but they hardly account for their general attractiveness. there are attractive and ugly ones in every race.

It’s hardly anything about the way they [innately] ARE that makes you find them attractive or not. You need to understand it’s about the way YOU PERCIEVE them. Thus the most important thing is to understand WHERE and HOW that perception came about. A discussion without this understanding is completely pointless.

If you’ve lived in a Western country, as you all [should] know, perception on Asians in general is all about exoticism, but in an unflattering and often degrading way. Now I’ll expect to see some hands claiming to completely deny to have such biased perception, and I’ll tell you you are wrong, not because you lied, but you just do not have the awareness that you are one of everybody who has adopted the mainstream perception thorugh an inevitable political socialization, i.e. via mass media and social norms. to be blunt, you have all been brainwashed to percieve Asians in such way, to a certain extent. It’s engraved in one corner of your brain, which lingers in your subconsciouness - something you can’t easily control with your will.

This perception on Asians began with the European domination of the world - what had long been Chinese supremacy for 1000s of years was completely overturned in a last few centures with the emergence of Rationalism and industrialization in Europe. Europeans conquered the world and acquired political, economic, and military supremacy. And naturally enough, the dominance European men had let them adopt and justify the views that were more advantageous to themselves.

Some of the view and ideas that began evolving during this era:
- Orientalism(idea that mystifies, exoticizes, objectifies and by doing so, generalizes&stereotypes Foreign culture and their people, and often sexuality of their women, thereby making Europeans as the mainstream and seem superior)
- Asian Fetish(objectification, hypersexualization, and subjugation of Asian women often in a derogatory way, thereby symbolizing the sexual dominance of American men, or often White men, over men of other races).
This wikipedia article gives a brief history on the evolution of Asian Fetish: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asian_fetish

In dating preferences, these are the implications that these ideas establish.
1. For White men, these ideas establish their sexual superiority and themselves as the Alpha Male figure that attains the priority in sexual access to Asian women and women of other race they desire
2. For White women, these ideas raise their minimum standards - Asian men are lower on social ladder, thus not to be considered for dating - making them to stay more loyal to their White men.

So, now you understand how the perception on Asian women came about and why White men have Asian fetish (while White women don’t).

You should’ve gotten the point by now: It’s not about races or their uniqueness of culture, or their superficial physical differences. They could play as a factor, but it’s only a very minor one. It is almost all about how YOU were TAUGHT TO PERCIEVE things. And these perceptions are simply established by dominant nations(dominated by men) that seek to gain advantages.

Turn it around, and the pattern would go exactly the same. Had the Chinese maintained their supremacy and dominated the media, things would have gone in favor of Chinese men and the lookalikes(which would be East Asian men in general). Chinese men would have maintained the idea of themselves as the mainstream and the superior. They would create and justify the perception that exoticizes Europe and hypersexualizes White women in a derogatory way. You’d see all these Chinese/Asian men with White fetish chasing after White women, and White women would do well to reciprocate their creepy sexual lust, because Chinese men would be deemed higher in socioeconomic status, which is what all women values the most.

(Part 2) Some of the view and ideas that began evolving during this era:
- Orientalism(idea that mystifies, exoticizes, objectifies and by doing so, generalizes&stereotypes Foreign culture and their people, and often sexuality of their women, thereby making Europeans as the mainstream and seem superior)
- Asian Fetish(objectification, hypersexualization, and subjugation of Asian women often in a derogatory way, thereby symbolizing the sexual dominance of American men, or often White men, over men of other races).
This wikipedia article gives a brief history on the evolution of Asian Fetish: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asian_fetish

In dating preferences, these are the implications that these ideas establish.
1. For White men, these ideas establish their sexual superiority and themselves as the Alpha Male figure that attains the priority in sexual access to Asian women and women of other race they desire
2. For White women, these ideas raise their minimum standards - Asian men are lower on social ladder, thus not to be considered for dating - making them to stay more loyal to their White men.

So, now you understand how the perception on Asian women came about and why White men have Asian fetish (while White women don’t).

You should’ve gotten the point by now: It’s not about races or their uniqueness of culture, or their superficial physical differences. They could play as a factor, but it’s only a very minor one. It is almost all about how YOU were TAUGHT TO PERCIEVE things. And these perceptions are simply established by dominant nations(dominated by men) that seek to gain advantages.

Turn it around, and the pattern would go exactly the same. Had the Chinese maintained their supremacy and dominated the media, things would have gone in favor of Chinese men and the lookalikes(which would be East Asian men in general). Chinese men would have maintained the idea of themselves as the mainstream and the superior. They would create and justify the perception that exoticizes Europe and hypersexualizes White women in a derogatory way. You’d see all these Chinese/Asian men with White fetish chasing after White women, and White women would do well to reciprocate their creepy sexual lust, because Chinese men would be deemed higher in socioeconomic status, which is what all women values the most.

(Part 2) Some of the view and ideas that began evolving during this era:
- Orientalism(idea that mystifies, exoticizes, objectifies and by doing so, generalizes&stereotypes Foreign culture and their people, and often sexuality of their women, thereby making Europeans as the mainstream and seem superior)
- Asian Fetish(objectification, hypersexualization, and subjugation of Asian women often in a derogatory way, thereby symbolizing the sexual dominance of American men, or often White men, over men of other races).

This wikipedia article gives a brief history on the evolution of Asian Fetish: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asian_fetish

(Part 3)*search: “asian fetish” in Wikipedia

In dating preferences, these are the implications that these ideas establish.
1. For White men, these ideas establish their sexual superiority and themselves as the Alpha Male figure that attains the priority in sexual access to Asian women and women of other race they desire
2. For White women, these ideas raise their minimum standards - Asian men are lower on social ladder, thus not to be considered for dating - making them to stay more loyal to their White men.

So, now you understand how the perception on Asian women came about and why White men have Asian fetish (while White women don’t).

You should’ve gotten the point by now: It’s not about races or their uniqueness of culture, or their superficial physical differences. They could play as a factor, but it’s only a very minor one. It is almost all about how YOU were TAUGHT TO PERCIEVE things. And these perceptions are simply established by dominant nations(dominated by men) that seek to gain advantages.

Turn it around, and the pattern would go exactly the same. Had the Chinese maintained their supremacy and dominated the media, things would have gone in favor of Chinese men and the lookalikes(which would be East Asian men in general). Chinese men would have maintained the idea of themselves as the mainstream and the superior. They would create and justify the perception that exoticizes Europe and hypersexualizes White women in a derogatory way. You’d see all these Chinese/Asian men with White fetish chasing after White women, and White women would do well to reciprocate their creepy sexual lust, because Chinese men would be deemed higher in socioeconomic status, which is what all women values the most.

Apparently Harvard MBAs don’t do SH*T when it comes to analyzing social issues…. how pathetic.
Tired of seeing too often this topic gets obscured…cut all the bullcrap about who’s more beautiful, who’s more loyal, who’s got bigger dicks, who’s more feminine…etc etc
Get this through your head first: PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE. there’re minor physical differences between races on average but they hardly account for their general attractiveness. there are attractive and ugly ones in every race.
It’s hardly anything about the way they [innately] ARE that makes you find them attractive or not. You need to understand it’s about the way YOU PERCIEVE them. Thus the most important thing is to understand WHERE and HOW that perception came about. A discussion without this understanding is completely pointless.
If you’ve lived in a Western country, as you all [should] know, perception on Asians in general is all about exoticism, but in an unflattering and often degrading way. Now I’ll expect to see some hands claiming to completely deny to have such biased perception, and I’ll tell you you are wrong, not because you lied, but you just do not have the awareness that you are one of everybody who has adopted the mainstream perception thorugh an inevitable political socialization, i.e. via mass media and social norms. to be blunt, you have all been brainwashed to percieve Asians in such way, to a certain extent. It’s engraved in one corner of your brain, which lingers in your subconsciouness - something you can’t easily control with your will.
This perception on Asians began with the European domination of the world - what had long been Chinese supremacy for 1000s of years was completely overturned in a last few centures with the emergence of Rationalism and industrialization in Europe. Europeans conquered the world and acquired political, economic, and military supremacy. And naturally enough, the dominance European men had let them adopt and justify the views that were more advantageous to themselves.
Some of the view and ideas that began evolving during this era:
- Orientalism(idea that mystifies, exoticizes, objectifies and by doing so, generalizes&stereotypes Foreign culture and their people, and often sexuality of their women, thereby making Europeans as the mainstream and seem superior)
- Asian Fetish(objectification, hypersexualization, and subjugation of Asian women often in a derogatory way, thereby symbolizing the sexual dominance of American men, or often White men, over men of other races).
This wikipedia article gives a brief history on the evolution of Asian Fetish: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asian_fetish
In dating preferences, these are the implications that these ideas establish.
1. For White men, these ideas establish their sexual superiority and themselves as the Alpha Male figure that attains the priority in sexual access to Asian women and women of other race they desire
2. For White women, these ideas raise their minimum standards - Asian men are lower on social ladder, thus not to be considered for dating - making them to stay more loyal to their White men.
So, now you understand how the perception on Asian women came about and why White men have Asian fetish (while White women don’t).
You should’ve gotten the point by now: It’s not about races or their uniqueness of culture, or their superficial physical differences. They could play as a factor, but it’s only a very minor one. It is almost all about how YOU were TAUGHT TO PERCIEVE things. And these perceptions are simply established by dominant nations(dominated by men) that seek to gain advantages.
Turn it around, and the pattern would go exactly the same. Had the Chinese maintained their supremacy and dominated the media, things would have gone in favor of Chinese men and the lookalikes(which would be East Asian men in general). Chinese men would have maintained the idea of themselves as the mainstream and the superior. They would create and justify the perception that exoticizes Europe and hypersexualizes White women in a derogatory way. You’d see all these Chinese/Asian men with White fetish chasing after White women, and White women would do well to reciprocate their creepy sexual lust, because Chinese men would be deemed higher in socioeconomic status, which is what all women values the most.

I think it should be said more often, Asian women have a White fetish as much as white men may have an asian fetish. I’m indifferent to Asian women. Are some beautiful? Absolutely. Are some ugly, absolutely, like any race. I am tall, successful, have blonde hair and blue eyes. Asian women seem to seek me out like a magnet. It’s weird. I feel like an object at times! It goes both ways sister….

as a black man i have dated many asian women and no disrespect to asian women especially chinese women, however i have found in my experiences with these women many of them are racially insecure. many asian women especially chinese have this desire to become white women they really despise their yellow skin, many times they really want to escape from their asian culture by getting with western men. A typical asian woman would kill her own mother just to french kiss zac efron they are really pathetic human beings who hunger for white acceptance.

meh, don’t you worry about asian women prefering other races. It is just biased to conform with white’s perpectives. Simply put, there are a lot of asian women and believe me, asian men shouldn’t have to be worried about don’t get one. See, I am an asian who happen to observe about this phenomena. Let me get the facts straight.

1. White men usually pick ugly women, so we don’t even bother to care about that. True some of those white men are the one that considered as trash. But nevertheless, this is some kind of win - win situation.
Those white men need girls that are loyal and submissive, and the other hand, most of the those girls need a man that can spoil them and also can take them out from particular asian countries.
Of course there are some cute and good looking asian women that married with white man and I am not saying they are married with other intentions.

2. Most of asian guy you meet on the internet are the nerds one. (I am too since my parents sent me here) anyway, they just browsing internet because thats the only refreshing they have. Here is the fun facts. Most of those nerds never have gf so if you are trying to debate with them. Well, go ahead.

3. From my last trip to Hong Kong, I can conclude this fairly easy. The people of HK are a lot different than their overseas counterpart. Most of the guy are good looking (I am not gay, k?) and they have the nicest gf that you white guys might never see one in your country.

4. If you doubt about asian women loyalty, here I am going to share my experience. I get my current gf back in my home country and when my parents send me over to Australia to study. Man, she even can endure long distance relationship (which most of white women cant). I mean seriously, my gf is a good looking one and she can even get others while I am away in Australia but she just wont. How can I be so sure? Because she told me so. Well, beside if she happens to find other guy, I dont need to worry. Girls are not scarce.

oh, and seriously I need to ask you white guy something. Are you guys really glorifying and praise sex? Even when I used google image to find something unrelated to sex there would be pornographic content.
I know sex is good, Ive had it. But the way I see white people live just disgusts me. What most of you guys do is just going to club almost everyday (like you have nothing to do in ur life), drink alcohol like water, have sex everyday like no other day. Correct me if I am wrong

Regards,

Hans

Mike
Posted August 10, 2009 at 9:42 pm | Permalink
As a white guy, I can tell you that my Asian girlfriend says she likes the “wide eyes” of white men and their bigger musculature (which she says is lacking on Asian men).

I have an Asian fetish. I prefer Asian women. Exclusively. I could call it a preference, but it’s more of a fetish. Yes, it’s impolitic to say I have a fetish, but that’s what it is. There’s just no denying it. I love visually undressing Asian girl passers-by, watching Asian porn, and objectifying Asian women.

I’m a white guy, 38, fairly successful and above average looking. I’m currently dating a Chinese girl almost 10 years younger than me. I’ve slept with Korean and Japanese girls, too.

I guess my list of why I like Asian girls is like this:

– Asian women are hot! I mean smoking hot! Ridiculously hot. Even “average” looking Asian girls (Chinese, Japanese, Thai) drive me crazy. The physical attraction I have to them is off the charts.
– Asian women “taste” better. I apologize since this is crude. But yes I do mean this sexually. They just do. I can only compare this to the white women I’ve been with. But, in comparison, I just find this to be true.
– Asian women are the epitome of femininity. Again, not all Asian girls. But I love their elegant hands, petite features, slender bodies, almost-hairless skin, and soft hair.
– Asian girls don’t mind if you have sex with them without a condom. Sure, they want to have safe sex. We all do. But mostly, they want you to be happy. If you don’t have a condom or don’t want to wear one, it is (sometimes) cool with them.
– Asian women don’t “interview” you on dates (most of them, at least). That is, when you date them they are more apt to talk about themselves and ask you courteous questions about yourself. They don’t “interrogate” you as part of the dating process (”How long was your last relationship?” “Tell me about your job!” “Why are you single?”) There don’t seem to be as many “dealbreakers” for Asian girls as far as dating is concerned. They pretty much accept you for who you are. That’s refreshing.

What’s interesting for me, is that my Asian fetish didn’t develop until the last 6 months or so. My perspective is unique (I think) since up until 6 months ago, I *never* even gave Asian girls a second glance. All I liked were white women (blondes, in particular).

That’s my .02.

Mike

Amen, brother!

Very well said. After all, who cares about the particulars of attraction when the reasons are purely physical?

Mike’s opinion is a breath of fresh air. And while most will view it as racist/sexist, there can be no escaping the truth behind his reasoning - exaltation of women based upon looks to satisfy a long-standing fetish or admiration.

For years I’ve had inordinate attraction to asian women, though I seldom acted on it for fear of rejection or ridicule. No doubt, I find them to be among the most beautiful women on earth - if not the most beautiful. But who cares what I think? I love my preference, just as many love theirs of latinas, blacks or whites. Preferences help to quantify differences that make us unique as individuals. They help to eliminate social barriers that can be an impediment to understanding the dynamics of racial or ethnic differences.

My current girlfriend is Chinese whom I’ve dated exclusively for almost 3 years and we have a great intimate relationship. She certainly fills the characteristic asian archtype: slender and petite with soft, attractive features and silky black hair. More importantly, she is smart, savvy and loyal but hardly subservient as some are lead to believe. She drives me crazy at times with her twisted logic but that doesn’t keep me from fantasizing about her whilst in the midst of passionate lovemaking.

Just as Mike said, even average looking asian women for me are often viewed as sultry as compared with other women. Heck, I’ve seen some super cute fobs that probably wouldn’t garner a second look from your average, typical alpha male!

I am a white man and I am not attracted to Asian women. Some may look good when they are young, but as they age their faces look flat and puffy. Plus, most are missing a decent bust !

I believe Oriental women Love Whit men , because Oriental Men have much smaller Penis.

I take issue with the statement “all White Men prefer Asian Females.” I know for a fact that this is not true. It is related to “supply” that’s true. I live in the NJ/NYC area where there are a ton of Asian girls/women and I know many white guys who are not attracted to them at all for various reasons. But, in the mid west (where I am from) it’s a different story. Even an average or below average Asian girl will be considered attractive by a lot of white guys and these girls will have no trouble at all finding a partner.

While I do agree with the supply/demand point I think it also has to do with the media. I grew up where all the films showing Asian women showed them to be caring, devoted, loving, respectful … all the things most guys would like in a girl most of all (if they admitted it which they won’t). They want someone to take care of them and love them unconditionally and Asian girls (per the media) seemed to be this way. Or they were the “Daddy’s Little Girl” who needed someone to care for them which was attractive too - Like Nancy Kwan in “The World of Suzie Wong.” But, the reality is so different and exposure to “real people,” which living and working in NYC/NJ offers, really blows away stereotypes pretty quickly. The variety is tremendous and guess what? A lot of Asian girls really aren’t that attractive and a whole lot aren’t even nice all the time either… They are just like everyone else… What a revelation !

Still if a guy grew up being bombarded with the idea that Asian Girls were the epitome of devotion, respect, caring, love .. and “yes” there is an element of supposed sensual prowess here too… well it’s pretty difficult to overcome and just see people as people finally. Perhaps it’s impossible even.

I guess I was pretty addicted once myself so I should know. On the wagon now fortunately.

I am a black guy who dated an asian-canadian woman of chinese descent. She was gorgeous and had big bootys and boobs, infact she was a very rare gem in asian standard. We dated for atleast 2 years, I was accepted by her family, and almost got married to her, before I did a U-turn, bcos I got fed up with her dominating attitude.

Anyways, she always talked about how she admired huge masculinity, big eyes, tallness (I’m atleast 6ft), and how she wanted her future kids to have these features. In short she hated her asian features. These insecurities is the reason why many asians (south-pacific) women date outside there race. As for why many Asian women date mostly white guys for interracial dating, history and colonial mentality have alot to do with it. To them, marrying a white man is a symbol of class. Most asian women often bleach there skin, to gain acceptance by white men, bcos (to them) whiteness signifies “success”, “power”, and “privilege”, hence there is no better way to become enjoy these attributes than to marry a white man, even if he treats them as dirt. Today, many south-pacific asian families in diaspora compete against themselves, in regards to there daughters getting married a white man.

And today, Asian men are considered the loneliest among men of all races in North America.

It’s not surprising to see so many postings on this topic. Everyone has something to say about it because it’s such a common phenomenon, on which I did extensive research and wrote a book. The e-book is available at http://www.theseashellbooks.com/Bookshelf/Entries/2009/9/10_Secrets_of_asian_women.html

Check it out! The book tells you what’s the truth and what’s merely a myth about all the stereotypical traits of Asian women.

I think many, but not all, white guys like Asian women because of the perception of them being passive and easy to control. If Asian women are not like that, then they should watch out. I’ve seen enough Asian women to conclude that some are pretty and desirable, but many are ordinary looking, and in this way don’t differ from women of other backgrounds. What I like about Asian women is their supposed intelligence, but I like both white women and black women for other reasons. I’m male, and a mature man.

sometimes love is just love. you can’t avoid who you are attracted to. I usually like a guy who has a personality. if the guy doesn’t have skillz in that department, no girl would think he’s worth it.

You can get an insight into the reasons why by looking at which Asian girls want to be white the most…usually from poorest native countries or most exploited by whites.

Koreans, Chinese, Japanese are pretty rich and have much cultural pride with minimum invasion by white “knights”.

Indians, Philipinos, Laos, Cambodians, etc. are poor economically and have history of Europeans invading and putting the entire race into submissive role. This makes a perfect environment for brainwashing: white good, asian ok, dark skin bad.

The most self hating asians are of (in my experience) are philipinos. They hate being short, big nosed, dark skinned girls vs. white blonds. I even went to a “philipino” restaurant in US where the whole theme was based on blue and yellow blonde girl’s bakery.

Basically, many Asian women have low self confidence, insecure of ethnic physical features, low sense of cultural heritage and pride, many with years of “white worship” mentality….they basically WANT TO BE WHITE, so they marry white to have half asian babies.

This is not exclusive to asian women at all. Just look at hispanic TV channels….all are advertisements for “white is best, elite, you should want to be white”.

But don’t worry Asian guys, most of these self-hating women find out later to be divorced, married lower class white when they could have married higher class asian man, and they will still hate themselves for being Asian.

Low/Middle class Asian women are materialistic…new money….so they marry for money. Just look at the bald jew the young asian women married.

Upper class Asian women have no reason to immigrate to America. They are rich in high social standing in their own country in Asia, so they marry another upper class Asian guy.

Also many older WM/AF couples are war brides….White soldiers deployed to war torn Asian country marry desparate Asian women seeking escape.

for asianmale:

Do you have some sort of a problem with bald Jewish men? I don’t. Do you think that bald Asian men are somehow better? I don’t. Suppose the man was a bald Catholic or Protestant - would that make it better in your eyes? Not in mine, it wouldn’t.

I chuckle at all this bs.

Some white guys on here think that they’re all that. Some Asian chicks that think they’re all that.

I’m of Filipino descent, about 5′9″ and well-built due to years of cardio-calisthenics, boyish face with full head of long, straight and THICK black hair and am PROUDLY 41 years old! I look a LOT younger than MANY white guys who are in their 20s (who seem to bald more easily, get wrinkly and what not).

I don’t even care about women’s ethnicity or race. Never have really. Sometimes my race can work against me…but then other times it WORKS FOR ME. If you look good, you look good and some of those honeys out there will let ya know it!

Exquisite. I still get my fair share of stares from pretty females of ALL races and age groups and I’m married, in my early 40s. I’m lovin’ life.

Not too many guys in their 40s have their boyish looks, hair and builds at my age. Damn, I feel good, especially after a workout and a shower. Put on some clean jeans and form fitting polo shirt…and this guy is good to go!

Peace out, baby.

I don’t really understand why anyone would be attracted to pale skin with dark hair (terrible combination), a flat face that you could balance a plate on, and slanted eyes that you can’t tell are open or closed. It’s the submissivness, non challenging, non threatening traits that American men are attracted to in Asians. With Asians, American men can feel superior instead of equal, with American Women.

I’m sure it could be a fetish or curiosity. But it’s not just about the looks, my current girlfriend is American but with an Irish history and is smoking hot, blistering fine. I don’t really compare her to the asian women I find myself attracted to. For me, the soft skin, and hair along with the respectful attitudes, and conservative natures present an image of a good mate. And that’s the truth.

I am from Kazakhstan. We have white fetish there. Native Kazakh men, who are central asians, are considered a superior race. We sleep wit white (russian, ukranian, belorussian) female and marry our own race. Chingiz khan, who exploited white race, lives in our hearts!!!

After reading some of the above posts I can say..

1 - I dated a middle/lower class asian woman, and she certainly wasn’t after my money. In fact, she spent a lot more on me than I did on her.

2 - I doubt that listing off stereotypes is in any way helpful… Somehow I’m going to guess that people looking to date inter racially aren’t concerned with the stereotypes associated with the target of their affection.

3 - This is a quote by asianmale:
“some Asian girls want to be accepted by mainstream society, so they marry white. But realize they are just faking to be someone who they are not.”
Maybe the reason your women come to us is because you’re living in World War II, Mr. Tojo.

The bottom line is people have personal preferences. Some people like chubby people, some like skin and bones, some like black, some like white, some like 18 and some like 81. There’s no real reason you can give for one racial group like another racial group, because each group is made up of individuals very different from one another.

How sad, we are still stuck in the what colour is your knickers stage.

Sexual and mating preference is pre-determined. Why get angry about an Asian woman wanting to be with a white man.

She probably grew up watching McGiver and the many other American tv series that influences her present choices.

I would be afraid to be seen with a white guy in public. The Asian public scrutinizes and labels us.

Better just be single and watch more American tv series.

In the uk, we really dont have many chinese, koreans, or japanese people like u do in the usa. Most white guys, like me, married to asians from thailand or filipines (mail order brides if u wanna call it that - dont bother me)

Anyway, I think most asian male animosity is directed towards white men stealing the “white” asian women i.e chinese, koreans, japanese. I think asian men get more worked up about white guys walking around with “Lucy Lui lookalikes” than they do with those going round with dark filipinas or thais.

Just like white guys get more worked up about black men with blondes than they do about brunettes. I guess its kinda like rubbing salt into the wound.

Also, I find “asianmale’s” comments offensive, in that he assumes that asian girls date other races because they have low self esteem and want to be white. Basically, he is saying that asian girls are supposed to date asian men. Blatant racism. Why should race matter at all?

Funny how 90% of dudes (mostly white) refer to themselves as “alpha” and “above average looking”.

I can guarantee most of you aren’t “above average” looking nor alpha.

I’m a white male and I prefer Asian women over all other races!
It’s because when I see an Asian woman my heart flutters and my stomach fills with butterfly’s. They are extremely beautiful… like a gorgeous work of art.

And white women on the other hand… Dominate their man until they are quivering little babies, demand gifts & flowers all the time to “show they love them”. They also play games with the mans mind, always fucking with them!

We are sick and tired of how western society has done a 180 and now we have become the women!!
We want a relationship that is EQUAL!!!

Rubbish! Of course not all white women think they’re models. You’re obviously mixing with a weird set of people. And are you insinuating that asian women have better taste in art, food etc? Rubbish again! Asian women have no better sense of art, food, et al than caucasion women.

Problem with the Asian women is that they too often end up with ”old” caucasian men, as they’re the only women these geezers can get to go with them. They’re usually with the old men for they’re money.

Asian women also have a reputation for being ”easy”. And latching on to other womens’ boyfriends and husbands. They deserve to have THAT done to THEM!

Harvard MBA’s don’t know shiieeet. You jump to rash conclusions buddy.

There are no logical nor intelligent ways you segment the “white guy/Asian girl” phenomenon.

1) The men saying that Asian women are more obedient, more attractive etc…you do realize that you have a fetish, and your opinions don’t really help with the topic?

2) The only reason some of you are bashing white women is that you obviously had some bad experiences in the past…so if you want to contribute, then you need to realize you can’t stereotype a whole race of women. Same goes for those bashing Asian women.

3) There are just as many white men who don’t feel any physical attraction for Asian females, but of course they wouldn’t feel the need to post here.

4)Also, cory, your “most white women are overweight” statement is not true. Again,you just sound bitter.

5)White men are more controlling than Asian men - they make a big deal about women dating outside their race. Asian men don’t mind as much. Or do they?

I am an Asian man and this is my point of view:

White men have become submissive and self-hating of their masculinity due to being raised under White feminist ideology. White men date Asian women as a release from the opinionated, loud and domineering White woman.

Asian women are raised under patriarchal Asian culture, making them quiet, submissive and self-effacing. Asian women date White men to have a more gender-neutral relationship where they don’t have to play the female role they are expected to play with Asian men.

I am a Filipina American and just wanted to post my own view after reading different comments here from people of different background. First, not all Asian women fall for old, bald, fat, or ugly white guy and not everyone goes for the guy’s money. Many Asians who were born or raised in western countries think different from Asian women who lives in Asia for the fact that there is a culture difference and economic factors too. When an Asian woman is very attractive, intelligent, and has her own money, there is a low chance that she will go for someone who is over twenty years older, not very attractive, or already divorce unless maybe, there is a slight chance that she really fell in love with that man. Now look at other women, black, white, Latina, or even mix races. If these women were good looking or even below average looking, possibly poor and uneducated, would not they consider marrying or dating someone who might be older too and could actually support them? Do not generalize Asian women as the kind who only go for white men because of the looks or money. I have lived in CA, TX, Europe, and have travelled around the world due to the fact I am also in the military and I can tell you personnally that I do not find all white men attractive even though I frequently get hit on or ask out by both white and black men.

I am 5′ 7″ tall, taller than average Asian girls, have dark brown eyes, long black hair, and I work out because I like to stay in good shape. And contrary to what most people believe, I love my brown skin and even go to tanning salons to get the perfect bronze look. Not all Asian women bleach their skin and love to look like a wash out person with no melanin :-)….. Sorry. If a white man ask me out and I happen to like him, I will go out with him but I would not marry him just because he is white. He has to meet my standards too such as being a kind, intelligent, sincere, and thoughtful person. And yes, I have to be attractive to him too especially if that person will be my husband.

I’m filipino looking for butt ugly woman to love. If that’s you send me an email.

Alright, lets cut the crap here! I have been with a Americanized Thai/Chinese girl for 17 years, almost half my life, married for 11 years. I was dating her before it was “cool” to have an Asian girlfriend (Pre-Lucy Liu), before half a million expats invaded China, starting this Asian women frenzy. She is Masters level education, so am I. She is beautiful, 9 out of 10 in USA eyes. In Asia, she is average. This being your first lesson. Go research what physical beauty is supposed to look like universally. When I was in Thailand, I was stunned to see so many beautiful petitie women, that made my girl seem average. Made me feel kinda dumb, like buying a trendy new car and having a cooler one come out a month later. (Her personality and intelligence make the package 10 out of 10). Dude, scope out the scene, calibrate yourself to what hot is in Asia, and be picky about what you chase. How she was raised is the second lesson. If raised overseas, forget it, you are wasting your time, woman will make you FkN crazy. They will not plug into USA culture, fashion, expectations, habits, customs, interior design. She will do the rule the roost thing all the time, and do stupid shit, like collect plastic containers, stupid dolls, save disgusting smelling food in jars, or wear clothes that clash big time. American raised asian women are highly desireable, like mine, BUT, you better think about the situation real damn hard first. If daddy is rich, she is most likely a spoiled brat and lazy, and can lite up a credit card like Paris Hilton. Rich daddy wants to cut the cunt off, and dump her to your payroll fool! If daddy owns a dry cleaner or restaurant, run the opposite direction until you vomit! The whole family is enslaved to the business, that means you too dumbass! I don’t even want to talk about raising kids, that is a disaster for discipline and religion, I have horribly underestimated the difficulty of raising mixed culture children. Clingy-ness is a big problem, Asian women latch on and won’t let go. Gives a new meaning to ball n chain. Woman gets upset if I go to the grocery store without telling her.
Most important lesson of all. Sex. What you see on the internet is a total joke, 1 of 2000 asian women act in a lewd manner because they enjoy it (calibration USA white girls are 1 of 40). Educated Asian women, which are the ones you want, because they work hard and pull a paycheck, are damn fickle about sex. If you want hardcore sex from Pattaya street trash, well, I pity you, and her, cause it won’t last, assuming you can even find one of those girls. Educated asian women do not have nearly the naughty streak white women have. Dark asian complexion = trash. White complexion = beauty. Take a second look at those Asian advertizements, have you ever seen an asian women without bleach white skin? Japanese women are probably on average, the least good looking. Many Japanese women have proportional disfigurements, like short bow legs, stumpy arms, ugly fingers, or messed up teeth. The hybrid ethnicity regions are best for beauty genes. Northern Thailand, Northeast india, Malaysia, transitional culture areas of China. You will find fewer turnip calved women, and fewer fat upper arms.

An Asian women with an education, attractive proportions, slim figure, B Size breasts, butt NOT flat, legs straight, you besta ask her out!

My lady is loyal, which is probably true for other Asian women the farther you are away from Los Angeles. Wife and I have spent a lot of time in Thailand. We have four beautiful children, no joke, model agency quality. Final lesson, Asian women can pop out kids and recover to an attractive state, like size six tube dress. White cows will in most cases, never recover from pregnancy. Warning, not all half kids are cute! My observation is about 1 out of 5 half kids are normal looking, 4 of 5 just look wierd. I have been blessed, German/Chinese/Thai seems to be an awesome mix. Looking, back, kids screwed up the whole deal, I really had it great until we had kids, she took awesome care of me, sex was frequent and awesome, and the guys were all jealous. Rule of thumb: With each kid, halve her attention to you. So, I am at one sixteenth, and it FkN sucks! I took better care of myself as a bachelor. Now we just tow around four kids in a mixed cultural mess that is damn near impossible to manage, everyone just laughs at us now (sure as hell don’t help). Next phase of the disaster is the cultural issue of aging Asian in-laws moving in. Someone forgot to post the sign to asian imigrants that old folks get sent to nursing homes in the USA, this ain’t traditional China!

Give the asian guys a break, especially the USA born ones, they will be making up the difference and getting the white girls, making the exact same mistakes the White guys are making with asian women!

Susan is a racist

Asian guys are feminine with small equipment.

White girls are stroppy, demanding and lazy.

Asian girls are feminine, caring and loyal.

White guys are smart.

– do the math, its a match made in heaven.

White girls don’t stand a chance, evolution will slowly wipe them out.

Hair is an asian woman’s existence. Investigate what you are getting in an Asian girl, since hair only comes in one color, black, you would be doing yourself a favor to undertand what crappy asian hair genes, and stunning hot hair really mean. Some asian women start to turn gray really young, like early twenties. Be sure to check on parents aunts and uncles. I found out later, it is a hereditary issue. Use your spy eye on the whole families’ hair dye routine, watch what to look for, like white roots, thinning hair on the women. My girl had awesome hair, then by the time she is 34, half is gray. She dyes her hair once a month, the hair texture and quality has gone coarse and rough. Her hair basicly went from hot to not. Are you shallow enough to ditch a girl for this? I am not, but I can tell you it is an annoying expensive problem to deal with once a month, so you end up dying her hair for her to save money. Heaven forbid you get caught looking at a younger asian woman’s hair while with your self conscious woman!

Ok that article was full of B.S. “Asian women prefer white guys because white guys prefer Asian women?” Gimmie a break. Asian women prefer white guys because the media is saturated with them. White culture and western culture is the predominant culture on the planet.

Now, you’re not saying your article is racist yet you implied that guy 1 is asian and average looking, with an average career and intelligence and guy 2, who is white is smarter, more good looking, with a better career?

Also you made the most stupid comment of going for chicks who love martial arts movies, as if the only connections between an Asian man or Asian woman (or even non-Asian woman) would be martial arts? This is from a HARVARD MBA?

Let’s get down to the real issue of “Why” again. As mentioned before, western society and culture has the most influence and power in this country and on the planet. The media determines what the majority of the people determine as sexy and desirable.

If the media decides that black people are desirable and sexy, as it has a lot more in current times than once was in the past (which the media in this country did portray blacks as desirable 70 to 80 years ago), then they will sway public opinion to believe so also.

However, still the dominant faces seen as sexy and desirable in the media are still white males and females. How many Asian male faces do you see in the media that are marketed in a sexy way, such as in perfume commercials or cologne commercials or underwear? Almost none. The media has not deemed Asian male look as something marketable in the realm of desirability. However, Asian females have been marketed in such a way, but much less than white females.

The more exposure to western media will prompt any female, Asian or not, to desire what the media tells them is desirable, as the same with males. It is about power and influence and the media communicates this influence. If you go into a rural area in China with no western influence whatsoever, I highly doubt the females will prefer white men.

However, if you were raised in a place in which all you see is white faces on TV or in magazines with the nice houses, nice families, nice cars, desirable good-looking men or women, you’re going to choose what you’re influenced by.

The people here should watch “The Slanted Screen”, it was a documentary on pbs. Originally asian men were very popular with white women. Then jealous insecure white men started bashing asian men in the media with propaganda.

@asianmale and the rest of you random haters

ouch…must you be so harsh about the stereotypes…? bitter much…?

i’m a Filipina, and a college girl. and no, i don’t prefer white men over all other men. i just happen to live in a land-locked state, so unfortunately i have only dated 2 asian males out of 5.

and i LIKE being asian. i actually PREFER asian men. unfortunately, i go to a smaller college campus, so no decent, single asian boys in sight. i took a few short trips to Seattle this year, and i was reeling from the sea of asians–many of whom i found attractive.

(but i don’t place asians at the top of the looks pyramid—i think mixed-blood people are the best. well, the mixes aren’t always good, but when they are, they outstrip most pure-blooded beauties…)

as to other stereotypes–i actually go for the feminized masculinity, the smooth honey complexions, the general hairlessness, the dark eyes, the keen intelligence. i don’t like obvious musculature. don’t bash the non-monstrous equipment—it’s nice not to bleed or hiss in pain when you just want to have fun…and i don’t like super-tall men, white or otherwise. i don’t always like feeling puny, and i hate when my partner has to bend down so much to kiss me. a good height is 5′ 9″, just enough so i’m tucked under his chin. plus, white men tend to bore or disgust me. that’s America for you…

and guess what…? my close friends are are a good mix of asian and non-asian, and they go for pretty asian men too.

ok, so i fit some of the stereotypes–i’m 5′ 0″, have honey skin that deepens under the desert sun unless i’m careful. but i don’t bleach. i have long black hair to my waist, and dark brown eyes behind glasses, and a smile that has never needed braces. i’m petite, slender at 106 lbs, to the point of frailty, even. in the curves category, i’m proportionate to my size, but not lacking. and i can pass for 14.
i’m shy, quiet amongst strangers, loving and loyal. but it’s not a mask. it’s me, how i am also to my female friends, more so even. i like feeling safe and protected, but so do most girls. i don’t go out of my way to be “cute” except for my closest friends. i don’t always dress glamorously, don’t spend hours doing my hair or makeup. i’m a fashionista when the whim strikes me, not every waking moment.
and so what if i’m a sub in bed…? someone i know actually figured me for a dom, given my upbringing. i don’t mind contradicting general assumptions.

but, miracle of miracles, i don’t attract white men in droves. besides nerds who bury themselves in their stereotype.
i’m classified as “cute” or “pretty”. one time a male (who i wasn’t dating) called me “hot”, i was speechless for a good five minutes, and i demanded that he stop teasing me. to this day i don’t really believe him. i’m childlike, perpetual jail-bait, and will probably be carded until i’m 40.

that’s not what men are looking for, not the general male populace. men want women, not little girls. why go for the little asian girl when you can woo the non-asian bombshell a few feet away…?

so what if some white men go for asian girls, and some asian girls go for white men? they also go for other races. i had a thing for a spanish boy once, but it was because he was cute, talented, and spoke well.

we asian women are all different. Just as all other women, and all men, are different.

Your Guy #1 and Guy #2 test proves nothing. Of course most women are going to jump for Guy #2, not just Asian women. The real test is when Guy #1 and Guy #2 are equally average. Guy #1 just happens to be Asian and Guy #2 just happens to be white. Then by and large most Asian women will prefer guy #1.

Not that it matters. Most women will go out with the guy who does the asking first, be it Guy #1 or Guy #2. Either that or she’ll reject both Guy #1 and Guy #2 and go out with Guy #3 who’s actually good-looking, smart, and has a good career.

Wow…I didn’t know that Caucasian men have such high regard for Asian women ;p Well, I have always been attracted to Caucasian men, not because I think that they’re better than Asian guys, but because if i were to ever ever ever have kids, I’d like them to be good looking. Having grown up alongside Hollywood films & western media representations, it is quite natural for me to develop a liking for the Caucasian looks. However, I find that not many Caucasian men have the family-loving qualities that Asian men have - ie, it is extremely easy for me to get a Caucasian date, but not so easy to find someone who wants a soul mate

Tom, I apologize if my comments have hurted your feelings. I was merely voicing a personal preference. As I have mentioned earliers, I do not think that Caucasian guys are better than Asian guys. In fact, I found that ‘more’ Asian guys positive qualities that make them a much better partner. But I find these physical traits (which I like) more common among Caucasian guys - height (more than 5′ 10″), large deep set eyes, high nose bridge, strong arms, toned physique - hence, I find Caucasian guys to be more sexually appealing. Personality-wise, I do know many Asian guys who are better individuals compared to Caucasian guys, and they’re all my good friends. But…there’s no physical attraction. I guess I should re-emphasize that not all girls think/feel the same way:) FYI, I do also have Caucasian girl friends who date Indian & Chinese guys

Asian women prefer white men because horny white men are running to Asian country by the hundreds of thousands to get laid by Asian whores.

These white men are aggressive and have the $$ looking for a wild time while the Asian women are gold diggers, infatuated with the western culture and willing to spread their legs to be apart of the whole experience.

Asian women have no dignity, they have no self worth.. all they think about is money/materials and love being courted and pampered by rich white men.

There is no other culture that is more money hungry than the Asian females and there is no other cultures that have men running to in droves to get laid in exchange for money other than Asia.

Don’t buy into all this hype that Asian women don’t like Asian guys because they are short and skinny either. Asian women will fall all over a short skinny white men over a tall Asian guy the majority of the time because they have this false sense of excitement they feel western cultures offer them.

Oh and white guys trump Asian guys in the jeans by a landslide. Deny it all ya want! Haha!

Most Asian girls I see with gwailo boyfriends are average looking at best. Ive lived in China, Taiwan, Australia an that seems to be the case.

Those below-average looking asian girls dont have many decent asian guys after them (the ones that know how to play the game and got dosh) so therefore are more receptive to foreigners.

Take note when you see an asian girl with a white/black/indian guy next time and see for yourself.

To the asian guys who wants to get white girls: okay so my friend is asian he’s buff and good looking. he likes the white women. he gets the white women. you guys who WANTS to get white women but can’t get any…well i’m sorry but my same answer is that you probably just don’t have enough game/looks/personality to win over a white chick.

Let there be love!

Many who wrote here stereotype people in one way or another. Dividing humanity on the basis of black, white, yellow, rich, poor, weak, strong, master, slaves, achieves nothing but promotes racism, sexism and ageism. If people can’t stand the color differences, then let us encourage more interracial marriages, so that soon all people will be mainstreamed in color – ruddy complexion. No more black and no more white. Lacking in melanin is nothing to be proud of. You get sunburn, freckles and a whole lot more wrinkles. People are meant to be loving, mixing and mingling with one another, but we chose to segregate and inbreed, resulting in the extreme color of black and white that we have today. The first humans originally came with brown eyes and ruddy complexion with the complete genetic cocktail that enables them to produce offspring of all skin tone, eye and hair color variations. Once, again, segregation and inbreeding is the culprit behind the world’s color and feature problems.

In regards to why white men prefer Asian women. Obviously, there will be different answers for different people. Some people do it for bad reasons. Some people do it for good reasons. Some can’t find love in their own race so they find it elsewhere. Some prefer to mix/mingle and take adventures. Some are just fascinated with different people. The same applies to why Asian women prefer dating Caucasian men. It is very much an individual thing. Thus, generalization and stereotyping is neither helpful nor intelligent.

Now, to the “Proud To Be White” woman who wrote with such intense passion of hate and bitterness. You are welcomed to be proud of your ethnicity, just as I am proud of mine. I feel sorry for you. My advice is: be cool, be calm, and above all, be kind. This may be your only hope of keeping your man in your bed for longer. Stop looking down on other people just because they come from a poorer country. Not all of us who come from the poor countries of South East Asia are whores. A greater multitude of us are honest, self respecting people. Having been through hardships in life, if anything, gave us more strength of character and the appreciation for what is truly good in life.

Don’t judge the fallen girls either. Should the table turn one day, you’ll probably find yourself on your sore knees sucking your 4” Chinese boss’ cocks for less than those Thai girls. Many of these girls are caught in circumstances that are beyond their control. Many chose to sacrifice everything, including their pride and dignity in order to help save the lives of their family members for whatever reason. If you think carefully, Western women’s lifestyle is not so different to these poor, fallen girls of Asia since so many of you fornicates with multiple sex partners and for less reason than these girls.

And get off your high horse woman. Your blue eyed, white skin babies may be adorable, but no more adorable then my enormous deep-brown eyed, tan skin baby. Get your facts straight too. You White Supremists aren’t the only ones who can produce blue eyed babies. Half-cast babies can come in blue eyes! We have one right here in our family circle. He’s 5 now, fully white skin and light brown hair. If you think it’s difficult now to find half cast people with varying eye and hair color, just wait a few more generations, these half-cast children’s children will produce a more mainstreamed color of people with varying eye and hair color too. Read more about blue eyed half cast babies http://www.esthetique-realm.net/forums/index.php?showtopic=10332

The point is why should you care if other people would like to make babies of blue or red eyes! What is the real reason behind your insist on being exclusive and divisive? Ahhh, yes, it is because you are racist!

Interracial marriages is not only good for the problems of racism, but there is less chance of defective genes matching up, thereby, reducing or eliminating prominent features such as long crooked noses and tightly slanted eyes etc.

Another thing I’d like to share with some of you gentlemen who wrote here is: ALL women grow old! If you think Asian women look ugly when they’re old, then take another look at your mother. If you plan to grow old with one, take your pick – a tiny, shriveled up Asian lady or a large old hag with excessive flesh and skin hanging off her face, waist and thighs. Another difference is: Asian women are less afraid of growing old. Thanks to a cultural system that revere and value their elders. The Western culture, however, values perpetual youthfulness. For many, aging is like a plague. To add salt to injury, there is little or no family support for you when you need it most. Is it any wonder, why more Caucasian women feel the need to go on endless anti-aging crusades trying to stay as young or as attractive as possible. Which is OK. However, if an older Asian woman put on make-up and try to look attractive, she will be shunned by her family and community, as it is considered improper behavior for her age.

Furthermore, for those of you who wonder why you don’t see many Asian guys dating Caucasian women. It is not because they’re being rejected by Caucasian women as some say. Do you have any idea how many single, desperate and lonely Caucasian women there are out there with no one to love!? The fact is Asian men generally have cultural and family obligations. The sons of Asian families are the pillars of their parents’ hope and strength. When the head of the family pass away, the oldest sons take their fathers’ places. It becomes their duty to ensure that family unity and closeness are preserved. They’re responsible for their younger brothers and sisters’ physical and moral health and well-being. The younger brothers are next-in-line to the throne of honor. Therefore, as true sons, they must honor their parents’ wishes and steer clear of Western women who tend not to be as faithful, or value family closeness, or care about family honor as much. Also, since they have been brought up with certain standard of morality, dating women for the sake of sexual gratification alone is a degrading and immoral thing to do. However, that’s not to say that there are no naughty Asian males out there, who date Caucasian women just for fun. After they’re done playing, they make their parents happy by settling down into marriage with women from their own culture. Of course, there are some who fall in-love with their prey and ended up marrying them. I see at least 7 marriages of Asian/Caucasian couples in my small community alone. These young women that have been chosen generally understand the value of the Asian families and make the commitments to uphold their new family’s values and traditions accordingly.The Gen Y Asians on the other hand, tend to be moving more fully towards interracial relationship with much less cultural encumbrances. This is because many of the Gen Y Asians, like many of their Western counterpart, are the products of Hollywood and the Western media. Thus, children, inevitably succumb to the influence of the media and develop their own culture and tastes. So these days, it seems all of the Gen Y Asian boys are dating Caucasian girls. Which is great. All my nephews and their friends, and their friends’ friends take at least a couple Caucasian girls each, even share or swap the girls amongst themselves. The girls are mostly treated well in other ways though, their dinners are always paid for, and their gifts of jewelery are always of pure gold. It is just an Asian style. Any Caucasian girl I talk to have said that once they’ve dated an Asian guy, there’s no turning back to dating white guys. So yes, there is love in the air, all be it Hollywood style. There is more interracial love between older generations now too. Now that racism and ignorance is decreasing, more and more Caucasian gentlemen are coming out to mingle with the rest of the people of the world. They’re not necessary old, bald and ugly. The ones that I know and befriended are heart-throbs, white collar professionals.

So, here’s to love!

venganza - Please educate yourself. Asian Americans have higher average SAT scores than any other group. Period. They perform better in school. There isn’t any preferential treatment there because, simply, we don’t need it.

Seeing as how Americans of European descent are not native to this country either, it’s pretty silly to judge and harbor animosity toward another culture that has only helped the US with paying taxes and near nonexistent need for welfare assistance.

Welfare stats:

White 38.8%
Black 37.2
Hispanic 17.8
Asian 2.8
Other 3.4

If there’s millions of Asians in the US, as you claim, then that figure is pretty impressive.

Also, do you know the size of Korea? Or Japan? Indeed, China is a huge country but Korea is about the size of Italy. And it’s a highly prosperous country with a well educated work force and very low unemployment. It would behoove you to know of which you speak, else you sound like a redneck racist.

Now, from my experience, people in general are attracted to differences in appearance. If you’re a guy and your mom is blonde, you probably like brunettes and visa versa. I’ve noticed that white men dislike their skin and prefer the smooth tanned skin of Asian women. That’s just appearance.

In terms of relationships, Asians clearly have a presence in colleges and universities where eligible men of all stripes can be found. Asian men are more retiring in general and their white counterparts are often more aggressive in dating. And that’s, I believe, what it’s all about.

Mr Vengence. Oh, sorry I mean Venganza.
I’ve just notice your name appeared 9 times in this blog. My mission is to try and unite people. You on the other hand, what is your mission? Stop all your put downs and assumptions already. I think we’ve got your point already. You hate Asians. So please get off the line and let other people have ago.

Clarity :

Why should I need to move? I’m sure there’s enough room in California to accommodate all of us. Apart from which I love the climate here.

Many people ARE leaving, although not for the reason you suggest that I should. No. They’re leaving for economic reasons, for the most part. Meaning an unfriendly business environment and high taxes.

If you believe that putting the rights of American citizens over those of foreigners re university admissions to be intolerant, then so be it. I don’t.

Just a thought.

Asian women don’t prefer white men. I can prove that because the vast majority of asian women are still with asian men. Unless you can show me 50.1% of all asian men dating white guys over asian guys. I’ll admit I was wrong. But good luck trying to find that out.

Which makes this article and this writer full of fail. For every asian girl around me, there are at least 9 that won’t date outside their race.

A wide paintbrush is wide…

VS is absolutely right. I agree with EVERY point you’ve contributed here.

I especially support your second last paragraph about the shifting of dominance to the east.

Clarity :

Since you keep mentioning the subject of skin and beautiful skin colour, etc. etc. I shall take the liberty of mentioning it myself (although I normally don’t talk about that sort of thing). I happen to have an olive, mediterranean type of complexion which tans very easily and also receive complements about it.

But I normally don’t go around boasting about it. Not on blogs or elsewhere. I brought up this subject because you mentioned your own complexion several times.

Oh - forgot to mention something. My roommate and sister-in-law are both asian. One is from Japan, and the other is from India. Don’t see much intolerance there.

Re the UCLA and other university admissions subject. Sorry, I still stand by what I originally said. In my opinion, when more than half of a student body is asian (pre-dominantly south-east asian), then there’s something wrong with that picture. A true and more fair make up of a diverse student body would have more people from other countries too, rather that having such a huge majority from one particular area. Even putting the whole visa thing aside, our universities would deserve a more diverse make-up, surely.

But like I stated previously and I state again. Money talks, and higher fees being paid talk too - ugly, yes, but nevertheless true, pretty or not.

Another thought.

Most normal white men prefer White women. It is the abnormal loserish White men who are forced to pursue Asian women because they can’t get women of their own race.

I’d venture to say that Asian women seem more attractive than Asian men because of the lack of sexual dimorphism in Asian races, ie the men appear more feminine than other races. Many people seem to agree (sometimes begrudgingly) that Asian transexuals (boy to girl) are far more attractive than Caucasian ones, and Asian transexuals are even more attractive than Asian women. The smaller chin, the softer, hairless skin, the fine features etc.

This would be one reason why Asian women are considered more aesthetically pleasing than men. This however, is a reflection present cultural attitudes towards the masculine and feminine (which is more machoistic towards men than it was in other centuries).

I took a class at UC Berkeley (asian American history 20).

In one class, the professor made an analysis of Western media and sociologic impacts.

If you examine who are the heroes, the sexy, the desirable MEN in movies , tv and print ads?

WHITE MEN (rambo was the example)
Secondarily BLACK MEN (denzel, snipes)

Who are the desirable WOMEN?
WHITE WOMEN
secondarily LATIN (but still light skinned, as strong willed , fiery)
third ASIAN women (as exotic dragon ladies or women in distress)

Examples of Asian women were the light skinned helpless vietnamese woman in Rambo III. She was strong willed and independent taking care of her family and fighting off japanese soldiers advances until RAMBO shows up and she become submissive and helpless. The alternative is the DRAGON LADY/SEX OBJECT like the woman in Volunteers (movie with Tom Hanks) in the tight fitting QiPao and slit in the dress up to the waist…

In the end, if you are a MAN (white black, yellow, purple…) you are conditioned to envy White men or pursue White Women, Latin, and Asian (in that order)

If you are WOMAN, you want a WHITE MAN and a BLACK Man in that order

ASian men were portrayed as sidekicks (even bruce lee in the green hornet was a comedic side kick), or COMEDIC actors long duc dong (sixteeen candles), any Jackie Chan character of late . Jet Li is likely the exception but has not been known as a sex symbol, only a kung fu star… (more of an Asian guy for the GUYS)

With the east opening up… Asian women I met in China/HK over the last few decades want that Western life … but there are many who don’t… you can see that those who do, prefer white men, the ones they see in the media. Those that dont… well they marry Chinese men…

If you don’t value your own race and culture imagine if other people would value your race and culture?
Did you ever think about if your future child would prefer a clear asian identity? Will the child feel the lack of identity being “mixed”?
Your race is asian, honor your race by keeping your race and culture alive.
It’s every asians resposibility, do your part, choose only asian partners.
Please meditate and think about it young lady!

Asian men CAN only date Asian women.

I am a white woman and I am happy that so many white men prefer asian women. I don’t want them anyway- I much prefer asian men to white men so this gives me more good available men. Asian men are usually raised with very good manners and know how to treat a lady. I think that many of these white men are in search of some type of sterotype that isn’t really true. Most asian women I know are not docile- maybe the ones straight from Thailand or somewhere with limited financial opportunities but this would be true of any race.

Friend of clarity:

No. My back hasn’t been stabbed - not by an asian person, or anybody else. My boyfriend doesn’t even live here. He’s overseas!

Sorry, but I don’t take back anything I’ve previously said. And it’s not just me. Most everybody I know has been hurt in some way by asian women latching on to their boyfriends - or in some cases, to their husbands (even fathers with children). Is this just a coincidence that these women all happened to be asian?

These are facts, not just something I’m making up. Shame on the men too for falling for this ploy.

And yes, sure there are good and bad in all races (goes without saying). Just somehow, one just doesn’t seem to hear about non-asian women latching onto asian womens’ boyfriends or husbands. Of if they do, then they’re at a minimum.

Supposing the reverse were to happen, and hoards of non-asian women (and men), were to immigrate to asian countries, fill their universities, and latch on to the men and women. I wonder how the native asian populations in those countries would react to that? Food for thought.

I’m an Asian female and I’m attracted to white men. I think part of my attraction is founded by the western standard of beauty: blonde, blue, and tall. Perhaps if media and culture were not dictated by western influence, I wouldn’t be attracted to white men, but I it does, and I am.

Although physical attraction is important, relational connectivity is also equally important, if not more important than exterior preferences. I don’t think it’s impossible for me to fall for a guy that isn’t white, it would just be very hard because ‘blonde, and blue’ pulls me like a moth to flame. That being said, I would not settle for just any guy that fits the bill. I’m not fishing for just a model-number-five-carbon-copy of the average American boy. What I’m saying is.. WHAT’S INSIDE IS more important than what is outside, particuarly what’s between the ears. That’s what attracts me the most: a robust wit and humor.

So, in the end I could see myself going out with any guy irrespective of race, so long as they are generally respectful, kind, humble, and intellectually capable. But, my kryptonite still remains white guys! The only way to bypass my preference for white guys is to stop me in my tracks with your beautiful mind There’s something really irresistable about a shy, ‘dorky,’ intelligent guy=)

P.S, I took offense at the a fellow critic labeling asians as being flat up top, with no butts.. I’m a 34D, 26 waist and 36 hip! We’re not all twigs!

I married a beautiful Chinese woman 15 years ago, and we are still married and very much in love today. I never went looking for an Asian woman, or meeting was pure accidental. I had admired some of the Asian women who are very beautiful, but so are some woman from every race and I have admired them as well. A beautiful woman is like a great piece of art and should be admired Ive always thought. Though since I married I have had no need or reason to admire anyone else, nor could I even imagine doing so. One reason is because i dont want to. Another is because contrary to popular belief, Asian woman will knock the crap out of you if you do. They can be very dominating at times, and not in the fun way you might be thinking of, although some of that can happen at times too, but I digress. Call it a fetish, call it whatever you want, but I adore my wife, and I always have and always will. And she has blessed me with 3 of the most adorable children in the world, a mix of her Chinese, and my Euro/American Caucasian. The older they get they more their looks get them in trouble too. Our boy, the oldest is now being sought after by many girls or all races for his looks and athletic pose. The 2 younger girls are always getting comments from people on just how adorable they are. I dread the coming years when they want to really start dating, and the wolves that will be knocking at our door( and me with my 45 in my iwb holster to answer the door)
Point is, it doesnt matter who your idea dream woman is, or was, you end up with your perfect mate no matter what you think you want. And maybe if you get what you think you want, you just might regret it. I originally always had what you call a fetish for red heads, and I ended up with the farthest thing from a red head, and have been happy ever since. About the only thing I would have to say is not a great thing about marrying an Asian, is that you marry the whole family. And that includes having to support many of them as well. For the rest of yours and their lives. Its considered normal in most Asian cultures. Just think of that while your chasing your Asian dream girl. You might get the girl, but your sending money to her parents, siblings, and even cousins , for eternity.