Comments on: I’m a 34-year-old single woman. Where do I find a decent guy? http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/ My name is Chris Yeh. I'm a Harvard MBA, and you can ask me anything! Sat, 04 Feb 2012 22:13:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Ishmael http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1899 Ishmael Mon, 30 Jan 2012 08:41:57 +0000 http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1899 Am a guy of 22 of age looking for 40 -50 years woman who are looking a guy. You can write to me at lamholyone@yahoo.com Am a guy of 22 of age looking for 40 -50 years woman who are looking a guy. You can write to me at lamholyone@yahoo.com

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]]> By: Maria http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1798 Maria Tue, 25 Oct 2011 21:29:01 +0000 http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1798 Karen, I hope you still read this article...whatever you do, do NOT...I repeat do NOT make the mistake I did. I was 29 years old and was dating a nice guy but didn't feel the "sparks" I thought I should be feeling. I let him go. Fast forward to now...I am 37 years old and still single after dating many jerks..I wish I could move back time...I would never have let the wonderful man go. If you have a great man now, please hold onto him. It sounds like you have a great man. The men that create the "sparks" are the ones who end up being the womanizers, players, emotionally-unavailable, comittment-phobic..etc.. There are plenty of men like that when you reach your 30s still single...Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. Hang onto this one, and don't end up like I did...wishing you could turn back time. If I knew then at 29 years old what I know now, I wouldn't be 37, single, never married and lonely right now! Karen,

I hope you still read this article…whatever you do, do NOT…I repeat do NOT make the mistake I did. I was 29 years old and was dating a nice guy but didn’t feel the “sparks” I thought I should be feeling. I let him go. Fast forward to now…I am 37 years old and still single after dating many jerks..I wish I could move back time…I would never have let the wonderful man go. If you have a great man now, please hold onto him. It sounds like you have a great man. The men that create the “sparks” are the ones who end up being the womanizers, players, emotionally-unavailable, comittment-phobic..etc.. There are plenty of men like that when you reach your 30s still single…Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. Hang onto this one, and don’t end up like I did…wishing you could turn back time. If I knew then at 29 years old what I know now, I wouldn’t be 37, single, never married and lonely right now!

]]> By: admin http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1796 admin Mon, 17 Oct 2011 22:10:34 +0000 http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1796 Karen, It's not unusual to get "cold feet" at the prospect of moving in together. Just be glad it's not engagement or marriage. What you're feeling might be temporary nerves...or they might reflect a fundamental incompatibility. Search your feelings after you've been living together for a few months. You'll be in a better position to decide what to do. Karen,

It’s not unusual to get “cold feet” at the prospect of moving in together. Just be glad it’s not engagement or marriage. What you’re feeling might be temporary nerves…or they might reflect a fundamental incompatibility.

Search your feelings after you’ve been living together for a few months. You’ll be in a better position to decide what to do.

]]> By: karen http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1795 karen Mon, 17 Oct 2011 21:26:56 +0000 http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1795 Im a 29 year old female. I've been dating a really nice guy for about 6 months now. My family loves him but the problem is all of a sudden im feeling like its just not right. We are supposed to be moving in together in a month and im terrified im making a mistake and settling for mr. Good enough. He is stable, nice and we have a relatively good time together but I don't have the sparks I've felt in my past. Do I just have cold feet? Am I scared that if this doesn't work out nothing ever will?? Help Im a 29 year old female. I’ve been dating a really nice guy for about 6 months now. My family loves him but the problem is all of a sudden im feeling like its just not right. We are supposed to be moving in together in a month and im terrified im making a mistake and settling for mr. Good enough. He is stable, nice and we have a relatively good time together but I don’t have the sparks I’ve felt in my past. Do I just have cold feet? Am I scared that if this doesn’t work out nothing ever will?? Help

]]> By: Patty http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1778 Patty Mon, 26 Sep 2011 07:48:34 +0000 http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1778 I am a 58 year old woman that has been divorced for 10 years. I would love to find a man just to do the simple things with, and to love. I would not even care about the sex if he didnt care for it. When I hear you young ladies looking for love, it makes me think that I should just wish for you to find love because you deserve to have all the things I have already had in life in my past. And I do wish it for you all. It was never a picknic for me but at least I had my 3 children. Whoooa, that wasn't nearly as fun as I had anticipated either but that is over. The good old days I suppose. Good luck to you younger ones and you men too. I have so much compassion for you all. I think I would want a man in his late sixties this time around. I just don't know how I would find him. I work a job that doesn't expose me to much public. I have no friends available to go out with. Do you guys think that it would be weird for me to go fishing all alone? I've never done that before but really, I would just like an ole guy who likes to fish. I am a 58 year old woman that has been divorced for 10 years. I would love to find a man just to do the simple things with, and to love. I would not even care about the sex if he didnt care for it. When I hear you young ladies looking for love, it makes me think that I should just wish for you to find love because you deserve to have all the things I have already had in life in my past. And I do wish it for you all. It was never a picknic for me but at least I had my 3 children. Whoooa, that wasn’t nearly as fun as I had anticipated either but that is over. The good old days I suppose. Good luck to you younger ones and you men too. I have so much compassion for you all. I think I would want a man in his late sixties this time around. I just don’t know how I would find him. I work a job that doesn’t expose me to much public. I have no friends available to go out with. Do you guys think that it would be weird for me to go fishing all alone? I’ve never done that before but really, I would just like an ole guy who likes to fish.

]]> By: melissa92 http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1774 melissa92 Fri, 23 Sep 2011 05:28:38 +0000 http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1774 i can relate...im 32 beautiful and cant even find a boyfriend but ive been looking for years---i just cant find a guy....guys i meet are only interested in me for a one time fling and that's a no....im also very attractive and kind and it makes no sense....ive been to clubs, bars, palces...no guy asks me out and based on how guys treat me they only want sex anyway.... i can relate…im 32 beautiful and cant even find a boyfriend but ive been looking for years—i just cant find a guy….guys i meet are only interested in me for a one time fling and that’s a no….im also very attractive and kind and it makes no sense….ive been to clubs, bars, palces…no guy asks me out and based on how guys treat me they only want sex anyway….

]]> By: Divya prakash http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1741 Divya prakash Tue, 16 Aug 2011 10:46:11 +0000 http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1741 Iam 41 single unmarrid man.having feeling the same. If you want i will be yours Iam 41 single unmarrid man.having feeling the same. If you want i will be yours

]]> By: Curtis http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1718 Curtis Wed, 13 Jul 2011 05:13:31 +0000 http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1718 I'm in the same boat, I honestly have given up on the notion that "love" is something that exists. I've tried everything and come up empty handed time and time again and just can't be bothered anymore, personally speaking. I have also noticed the same thing, just a fling. It is a sad statement that we as a society have degenerated to a point that we simply live for the moment without a care for anyone else, but what happens when the moments end and the only person left is that of the reflection of a hollow person staring back in the mirror? I’m in the same boat, I honestly have given up on the notion that “love” is something that exists. I’ve tried everything and come up empty handed time and time again and just can’t be bothered anymore, personally speaking. I have also noticed the same thing, just a fling. It is a sad statement that we as a society have degenerated to a point that we simply live for the moment without a care for anyone else, but what happens when the moments end and the only person left is that of the reflection of a hollow person staring back in the mirror?

]]> By: sue http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1687 sue Tue, 21 Jun 2011 09:15:39 +0000 http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/06/07/im-a-34-year-old-single-woman-where-do-i-find-a-decent-guy/#comment-1687 i'm tired of bieng single i wish to have a partner now but how? i’m tired of bieng single i wish to have a partner now but how?

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